Thursday, April 7, 2011

Just a Rant

My husband is driving me nuts. Up the wall bonkers.

Why?? Because I find myself feeling like I parent him. I love my husband with all of my heart but I gotta tell you I hate being the one to tell him how to do things and when to do them. I hate when I feel like I have to make sure to give him step by step instructions. For instance, our comforter needed to be washed last night. I asked him to put it in the wash machine and gave him instructions on what setting and all of that. 20 minutes later we are looking for our T.V. remote and I ask him if he moved it when he took the blanket off... His response "uhhhhhh, was I supposed to? I didn't think to look for the remote" So guess what?! Our t.v. remote got washed... Why? Because I didn't tell him to make sure there was nothing on the blanket before hand... I mean really?! WHAT THE HECK?! I get it if a kid makes mistakes like this but not a 25 year old... Come on! And this isn't the first time this has been an issue. He's done similar things before.

I prayed for understanding and patience. I didn't yell or get angry because well there is no point it doesn't fix the issue, it doesn't repair the remote... But I think I have the right to be a little annoyed at the bigger picture which is his lack of attention... am I wrong??

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